Are you Smiling Man?

Smiling

Hey fellow Superhero’s,

I have a story to tell you. I was out at a cafe yesterday sitting down to have a nice coffee when I saw very attractive and fit blond women, whom I looked and smiled. I just felt it was what I must do. And honestly, I smile at just about everyone I get eye contact with these days.

It’s a much nicer fun way of living. You must try it and do it more. So much more!
This message for today; and this extremely valuable superhero quality is to get you to smile.
           
As Michael Jackson sings ‘Smile’… you need to listen to the words because it is so true. Even when life delivers all its ups and downs, which it’s going to do forever, you should smile go for the ride. Smile!

Watch the movie P.S. I Love You. Check out Gerard Butler (he’s the guy that dies). He’s always smiling and having a great time, even when they’re arguing. He keeps his head while she’s loosing hers.

Stage 1. To improving your ability to meet, connect and become super successful with more women.

SMILE

When talking to guys about how they can meet more women, have more success with women, I so often hear them wanting what to say when they approach a women they don’t know, what to stay to do to get them into the sack. (bed)

Then I look see they are so nervous in their own skin, they can’t even look a women straight up in the eye and smile at them and maintain posture and a confidence.

If you’re falling into this category, I say to you this is your lesson.

Lesson for today

1.      When you are out and see women, any and every woman. Look at them and give them a nice smile.

2.      Push through your ego’s defenses, your silly monkey mind fears and have you stand tall like a superhero.

3.      The point here is to not necessarily get a smile back, its you being A MAN, walking tall and being a confident however humble man that wants to connect and bring happiness to yourself and then to others. In this case the beautiful women on the planet.

I dare you to see how you go with this challenge. It may seem simple, however be the observer of your emotions and see what happens. I’d love to hear your feedback on what occurs for you.

Hey you may even meet some lovely ladies. What a bonus!

A smile not only lets a woman know you’re having fun and not taking yourself too seriously, it shows that, hey, I’m a fun guy to get to know! Most guys are so nervous they forget to smile and show any form of confidence.

When you do get eye contact and keep smiling, she’ll find it harder and harder to keep from smiling herself. And once she’s smiling, or even laughing, you may have your first foot in the door. Also when you walk into a place with lots of ladies everywhere, enter with the biggest smile you can muster and look around at everyone in the eye, like you own the joint. This is confidence and power, which girls just love in a guy.

Hey superhero, please understand I am also not reducing the importance of things that go on your in life. Some can seem very important at times. Insecurities, women, friends, job, relationships, fears, money worries, loneliness, can all be very overwhelming and make life challenging to live. For which I am working to provide you many ways and steps to help combat these challenges.

However an important action at the top of the list is about smiling. It makes all the rest of the stuff much easier to do.

Give yourself a break and have a smile, ‘especially’ if you want to have ladies in your life. They want to have fun more than anyone. So Smile!! When you do this, it just takes the heaviness out of it all.

It’s time for a smile! That’s right! Before you do anything… smile right now!

See my friend you’re way too hard on you and we are way too serious on this planet.

As Mystery (The Game) says, ‘This is not a war game; no one gets shot or killed.’ It’s fun!

Please, if you get anything from this article, focus on having more fun each day, with yourself and your woman. You’ll love it and they’ll love you for it.  

To your super power,

Trevor Russell

 

 

Making a Decision to be Truthful

Ok my superhero’s, here’s a new’s flash that will get you powering up!

I want to talk to you about what ever superhero should have as the very cool values to live by. Being decisive and truthful.

My girlfriend was sharing a story yesterday with me, regarding this client (ill call him David), she is dealing with in her business.

She sells properties using creative property strategies. Anyways, this guy David, purchased a property off her and agreed to a payment plan for some of the deposit monies to acquire the property.

In this time since he has moved in to the house, he has never met his agreement terms, due to being late and paying different amounts he says he will and sometimes just off the radar with no contact.

To make matters worse for himself, David lies. He comes up with all these stories of how you is going to pay on an agreed date and what he will pay. To only not follow through.

To make matters worse for himself, when he is confronted for not doing what he say he will, he calls the property owner and says he is being harassed.

So where am I going with this story? Good question.

The point I want to share is. Is firstly the observation of David’s life. It’s a mess!

He is always having problems with what is showing up in his life. He has lost money, has bad dysfunctional relationship and gets no respect, especially from my girlfriend.

I hear what he is attempting to do which he feels is a noble strategy, is to people please.
Do you get this term?

He says he will do things in the hope he has pleased the other person and this particularly lets him off the hook. To only bring more suffering and grief to him.

My message here to David and to all me is, make a Decision to be Truthful in your word.

David would be much better to say the truth. For Example, I can only pay this amount of money by this time. Even if its much less and takes much longer for him.

My girlfriend said if he did this she would respect him so much more for being truthful and honest instead of just attempting to please here and let himself off the hook.

I personally see from experience is much better to be truthful even if it feels hard to communicate and be respected for it. Than to people please and be a wussy lyer.

If you are going to live a life of clarity and empowerment, make a decision to tell the truth and be honest, even if it feels hard to do.

The lessons to take here:

  1. Take full responsibility for your life and your word. You will be respected by women so much more. They just want the truth.
  2. If you don’t have the money to pay right now, tell them and put a truthful payment plan in place that can work for you.
  3. If you don’t agree with something she says, tell her you choose to disagree on that point.
  4. All the while being a cool, clear, calm, decisive and truthful man.

Note: don’t be a dick about it either, by acting like some hard noised riotous macho man.Just be honest and truthful and humble.

If you want to get a girlfriend, keep a girlfriend, live a happier and more peaceful life in mind and spirit, like a superhero like you should!

Then make a decision as a superman to be truthful.

To your super success,

Trevor Russell

 

 

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